here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows higher than the soul can hope or the mind can hide
- e.e. cummings
I hold the belief that individuals and couples are capable of rerouting themselves to find greater meaning and purpose in their lives, and given the right support, to be the best possible version of themselves.
My job will be to provide you with a safe space to reboot - where you will feel heard and have time to think. A space where you can explore your thoughts, the paths before you and the options that you can take forward.
In these sessions we may uncover some difficult topics and challenging blocks, however these difficulties can be resolved not just with hard work but often with the richness of humour and playfulness.
about me
I am a Relationship Coach and Relational Life Therapy practitioner working with individuals and couples. My approach is warm, direct, and deeply relational.
I offer a therapeutic space that is compassionate, honest, and engaged.
I believe that we are all wired for connection, yet many of us learn ways of protecting ourselves that can eventually create distance, conflict, shame, or loneliness in the relationships that matter most.
My job is to work sympathetically alongside you but also develop the trust that allows me to challenge behaviours or dynamics that are no longer serving you, while also honouring the experiences that shaped them.
- Personal Development
- Couples Therapy
- Relationships
- Co-parenting
- Individual Therapy
- Self Esteem
- Self Confidence
- Resilience
- Conflict Resolution
- Sustaining Change
- Perfectionism
- Procrastination
Couples Coaching
Relationships can be complicated, never more so than now, and this approach cuts into the heart of what we all want, but don’t know how to get, in our long term relationships.
I work with individuals and couples around relationship issues, whether these be at work, within the family, friendship or more often within long- standing romantic or other intimate relationships.
Find out more here : Relational Therapy
Testimonials
“Thank you Ali. I am very aware of the massive progress being made - it is quite astounding to me to have come this far in such a short time , and a huge testimony to your skills. I’m blown away to be honest after so many years of feeling little or no progress despite so much effort on my own.” - Anon
“The input you gave me really meant the world. I would have never in a million years initiated the hug with my dad, but I did, and it really worked well and although I got no apology I came away feeling better for it. So strange how emotions work especially when you are holding onto so much anger, sadness and anxiety and yet it all melts away in a hug.” - NJ
“In short it was just very reassuring to feel fully seen and understood. You recognised some qualities that I possess and am proud of. This made me feel safe and that mine and Alice's relationship was held and in safe hands. Consequently, and almost overnight, I was able to shed the resentment towards Alice I was harbouring and cultivating and focus on continuing to do 'the work', but graciously and without expecting anything in return. Phew!” - WM
How It Works
I work both in person and online. Living in Somerset I have a beautiful warm and welcoming work space within my home that we can use for our sessions.
Sessions are usually 60 - 90 mins and can be scheduled on an individual basis or as a series of sessions over 3-6 months.
COSTS
The first ‘Chemistry’ session can be upto 50 mins and is free of charge. This will enable us to see if we are a good fit together, you will learn more about how I work and have the chance to tell me what you are looking for…
Sessions are usually between 60-90 minutes , and this and fees are discussed at our first meeting, depending on the type of session that feels most beneficial.
Get in touch
Alternatively you can reach me on 07973 684504 or message me directly at ali@alimartinassociates.co.uk. Please check SPAM and JUNK for reply - I ve heard responses sometimes get in there instead of your Inbox !
